Hello. Lisa, I love that you breed and show Cairns! That is awesome! I grew up with Cairns, Scottish Terriers and West Highlands! I have had all different sizes and breeds, from a Great Pyrenees to a miniature poodle. Loved them all. Once, I had four dogs at one time. The cost of having them groomed regularly was expensive, so I went to a dog grooming school and learned how to groom them myself. I could write a book about that experience! To me it was so much fun, but, boy, it was hard work! Trying to get a 90-pound reluctant Weimaraner into a bathtub is not easy! Lol I no longer have any dogs and I do miss that, but little birdie birds are my thing now. 💗 What you said about them all having different personalities is so true. Cleopatra was my first bird, so it is from being on this forum I have learned what different personalities they can all have from each other. Just like dogs Having a hand tamed bird can make a big difference on their personality. Any experience your bird has had before we get them can influence them. Your grey cheek sounds like he was an exceptionally lovely bird. It must have been very special having him in your life and I am sure you will always miss him dearly. Now you have Chumley. 💙 I love his name, by the way! Your lovable little stinker birdie. They are all little stinkers! And they each have their moments, don’t they? Lol If we had friends who acted as badly as our parrotlets do, at sometimes, we would want nothing to do with them! lol So, what is it about these little fluff balls that no matter how bad they act, we love them as much as ever? I remember the first year I got Cleopatra she was a handful at times. When she got mad she would bite me and then she would fly to the top of her flight cage and have a conniption fit! (From all the yelling I got from her at times, I am inclined to think birds swear!) lol I remember watching her storm around on top of her cage yelling and thinking how much I love her! Even at her worst, she could do something to melt my heart. Once they hook our hearts, that is it! We are goners! Chumley is lucky to have you! I know how much you love him! How old is he now? The good news is that they can mellow out with time. That is what happened with mine. She turned out to be the sweetest little thing. Now that I will be getting Pugsley in a couple of weeks, I wonder how he is going to be. I keep on telling myself that I won’t be comparing him to Cleopatra, but I imagine that may be hard to do at times. My breeder is going to hand-tame him for me, so that is going to help a lot. Isn’t it great having a good breeder that you can rely on for good sound advice? We are lucky to have them!