I wrote you a message, then this computer "lost it." I hope all is well with you & your husband with the kidney transplant you both had. Bless you for being there for him! You were saying in your message that Melody favors your husband over you. Don't worry----Ollie favors me over his plastic white toy (ice cube tray or small plastic cup) right now. He will call me to get him out of his cage, but is soon back in his cage playing with it. I enjoy our mornings & evening scritches. Melody is normal, she'll be your best friend when your husband is away. At least you don't have to compete with a white plastic toy!! Write and wine anytime, I love to get messages! Best to you all.